"I've heard this tragic story far too many times..."
You can feel this excruciating moment coming on from a mile away.
The conversation with this cute girl started off great. She's smiling,
laughing, clearly becoming more interested and more attracted as you
Call it a brain fart, a blank mind, a loss for words. The only thing
that matters is, it brings the conversation to a complete hault and you
can feel her attraction levels for you dropping faster than a drunk girl
So what can you do to pull the conversational nose-dive back into the high flying interaction it was?
You dig into your toolbox. Your social toolbox, that is.
I'll share with you my absolute favorite conversation-saving tool.
This is a guaranteed way to save any conversation with a girl, PLUS it's
so perfectly constructed, that it easily allows for sexual innuendo to
get her mind "in the right place" while still being in the context of
pure, NON-NEEDY and FUN banter.
It's a little game I like to call "FMK" and it will be your new best friend.
When you deploy the FMK game, any drooping conversation will instantly be turned around.
You will leap beyond the average lame guys who approach her with the same old boring pickup lines and dull conversations.
So it goes like this:
When you start to run out of things to say, just as you can feel that her attraction is about to start dipping down...
You turn to her, and you say:
"Hey, let's play a game real quick."
Watch as her eyes sparkle with curiosity. This is a departure from the
normal night-time drivel she's used to dealing with. She will almost
certainly invite you to proceed.
Continue to the game. Start to glance around the room, assessing the
other guys you see and start to point them out one by one, and asking
her "ok, so would you fuck, marry or kill him?"
She'll laugh at first. Then she'll look over at your target and size him up.
Choose different types of guys representing the spectrum of personality types and behaviors.
A jock. A douchebag. A nerd. A handsome debonair type. A bad-boy rocker. A business guy.
This will do a few things:
1) You will get an insight into what she values in a man, and how she
operates. She will give very direct clues to how she wants to be
If she says "fuck" to the rocker dude, "marry" to the nerdy guy, and
"kill" to the guy in a suit...then you can guess that she's got a wild
side, she doesn't like guys with a lot of structure, and she's a secret
Think about that... she'll basically be giving you a HUGE hint into how to seduce her.
If you know the 4 things that every girl needs to know before she thinks
about sleeping with a guy, it will pretty much be deal-closer.
More on that in a few...
2) You can continue bantering and teasing her. This is so crucial to the first stage of the interaction.
Keep conversation light, non-needy (teasing her playfully) and fun!
Make fun and silly projections about who you guess she'd fuck, marry and kill.
It will be remarkably easy as she's alternating between giggling at her
own qwerky tastes, cringing at the dopey guys, and switching to her "ooh
la la" voice with the guys that turn her on.
3) Which brings me to my next point...SHE WILL GET TURNED ON.
Remember, you are asking her to bring the thought "who do I want to
fuck?" into her mind, and all in the context of an experience that was
generated by and shared with you...and only you.
4) Finally...she will see that you are 100% confident in your sexuality
and your ability to attract women. You can confidently discuss the
theoretical thought of her sleeping with other men, and that doesn't
99.99% of dudes would be terrified to even suggest that she even look at another guy when he's talking to her!
Your confidence here will be very, very sexy to women.
After playing this game for even a few minutes, she will be extremely
turned on by your creativity, your playfulness, and your confidence...
This sets you up PERFECTLY to transition into the next stage of
interaction, build upon the sexual energy in this game, especially if
you've been properly mixing in the right "sexual triggers" that all
This is part of the 4 things that every girl needs to decide to sleep with a guy.
If you haven't learned about the sexual triggers yet, stop everything
and watch this presentation (this shit will change how you attract women
Learn how to activate secret "sexual triggers" <--- Get her instantly turned on
PS FMK is a great tool to have in your toolbox. There are several others
that will absolutely make meeting women a breeze when you go out.
"The Free Drink Technique" and "The Kiss Technique" are a couple that changed my life forever when I discovered them.
Learn more about the sexual triggers, and these amazing secret tools in this free presentation:
[Illegal Seduction Techniques]: Discover these 4 secrets women will never reveal
SUBJECT: Kiss Technique
You're about to learn, hands down, the best way to successfully get a
girl to kiss you without fear of rejection. In the advanced version of
this technique, you can even get the girl you're talking to to lean in
to kiss you!
So if you've ever been afraid of getting rejected going for a kiss OR
you've gotten "the cheek" you know why having a rock-solid technique to
moving in for the kiss is 100% crucial.
Going in for the kiss is probably the worst place to face rejection in an interaction with a girl because:
1) You've invested a lot of TIME by this point in the interaction, and
there simply isn't enough time in your night to get this far and then
hit a brick wall and have to move on.
2) Screwing up this part of the interaction can ruin all chances of moving on from here to seduction.
Most guys don't have the chance to learn how to perfect going for a kiss because it happens so infrequently!
Even on a good night, most guys will typically find one girl they hit it
off with at the bar where a kiss is probably even a possibility.
So normally, you'd have to face a lot of these rejections one by one to learn the best way to successfully go in for a kiss.
But luckily, I've already gone through all those failures for you (until
I discovered this killer technique), and can present the best way to
avoid failure and shortcut right to success.
The Kiss Technique makes it so that when you're speaking to a woman, you
can intentionally give off subconscious triggers that will make her
think about kissing you!
Pretty powerful stuff...
If you use this technique, suddenly making a woman want to kiss you will be something you have control over.
If you decide to "wing it" in the stage like most guys, however, you're going to run into problems...
First, you won't know how physically receptive she is to kissing you. A tried and true rule to go by is this:
Your hesitation = Her reservation
So the more you hesitate, the worse your chances get, because she starts to build up all sorts of red flags and reservations.
When you go to lean in for the kiss and you don't do it the right way at
the right time, you'll come off as needy (like you don't have a lot of
options with women) because if you did have a lot of options, you
wouldn't be worrying about the kiss with this girl.
So how do we show that you are absolutely NOT needy (even if you kind of
feel like you are) and provide a way so that you will not fear
rejection because you will know for sure ahead of time that she is
wanting to kiss you?
We use what's called The Kiss Technique.
This involves combining two psychological concepts into a perfect recipe for mastering the kiss.
The first concept is called triangular gazing.
This will happen while you have built rapport and are looking to move
into seduction. It involves looking from one eye to another, then
looking at her mouth.
When you start looking at her mouth, you will subconsciously start to
think about kissing her, because this action is already anchored to the
thought of kissing someone.
Even if you look at a woman you're not attracted to and look at her
mouth, you can start to think about kissing her, and you will become
MORE attracted to her.
The good news is...the same happens for women.
The even BETTER news is...you can lead her to subconsciously start to do this and feel more attracted. How?
By using the second half of the recipe...another psychological concept called Mirroring.
Whenever we are in conversation with someone, we will mirror the leader
of the conversation in an attempt to build subconscious rapport with
When you perfectly combine triangular gazing and mirroring, you have a
combination that will make her subconsciously think about kissing you.
After talking with her in rapport, start to look at her mouth. At first,
only for 2 seconds, then look back to her eyes. Switch between her left
and right eye, then back to her mouth for a few seconds longer.
Continue to go from left to right eye and back to her mouth for 2 seconds, 3 seconds, then 5 seconds.
Eventually, you want to be mostly looking at her mouth.
When she begins to look at your mouth as well, you know for sure that she's ready to kiss you.
Voila! The Kiss Technique takes all of the guess work out of "making a move".
You will now know with confidence when she wants to kiss you, and get to
be the fully assertive but perceptive man that women find irresistibly
She will feel like you know exactly how to treat a woman and feel safe and confident moving on with you.
Now, if you want to take this technique to the next level and make it so
that girls will be leaning in to you and basically begging you to kiss
them, you only have to know one magical sentence.
more about the Kiss Technique and the bizarre, magical sentence that
activates her "sexual triggers" and makes her lean and practically beg
you for the kiss.